What to Get for Your Mother in Law for Christmas

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First, never get her a scented candle. I don’t care if it smells like “Autumn Embers and Inner Peace.” That’s the gift you give your gym trainer. Your mother-in-law deserves something that says, “I remembered you have a personality.” Start by thinking about her hobbies, but don’t get too specific. Did she mention she likes gardening? Great. Don’t buy her a rare orchid she’ll kill in a week. Get her a really nice pair of gardening gloves with little rubber grips. It’s practical, but it’s not a vacuum cleaner.

Another safe bet is food that isn’t fruitcake. Everyone hates fruitcake. Get her a box of luxury chocolates from a local shop, or a jar of honey from a farmer’s market. It’s like saying, “I know you enjoy things that taste good, and I’m not a monster.” Bonus points if the packaging is pretty. She’ll probably Instagram it, and you’ll get a polite “tagged in a story” notification. That’s a win.

The “Experiences” Trap (And How To Avoid It)

People love to say, “Give the gift of an experience!” But be careful. A “cooking class for two” sounds romantic, until you realize you’re stuck kneading dough with a woman who still thinks you’re not good enough for her son. Instead, give an experience that she can enjoy on her own terms. A subscription to a streaming service she doesn’t have, or a voucher for a fancy afternoon tea with her own friends. This way, she gets to feel pampered, and you don’t have to sit there making small talk about the weather.

I once bought my mother-in-law a ticket to a local theater show. I said, “I figured you’d enjoy a night out with your book club.” She looked at me like I’d just handed her a winning lottery ticket. That look is worth more than any luxury handbag.

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